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Frankly speaking!!!

Who doesn’t want to stay in these clean and nice cities; Boston or Ottawa or maybe Sydney for instance? I don’t blame those immigrants, everybody always wants something good, promising and improve their quality of life. Man !! you can’t say shit about me about moving abroad until you see and u have no idea what I have seen and experiences. Who doesn’t want free best and free education for their kids? Who doesn’t want free health insurance for their life and the rest of their family, who doesn’t want free cash from government for their baby infant, if those say “No” I think might be something wrong with them! hahaha (just joking), some people doesn’t realize how lucky they are to be born in such a nice country but some does! You need to see things and experience things and usually it cost things too. Some people is too scare to be out of their confortable zone and they stuck!
Why is it so hard to get USA/Canadian/Australian Visa for those who come from third world countries! ahaa now I understand why??? These countries are so promising, you have no idea how hard it is to get the VISA!! People here wonder why??? I thought u just apply then get one! Yes right! If it is that simple and easy, I’m sure so many of them will move here for good. I see so many Asian who moved and stay here, those immigrants are lucky enough to be accepted and settle their life and family! In fact they have way better quality of life than their back home! Everything is so organize and well maintain here. the definition of law is literary “law” not “money talk!” the human right is there! woman emancipation whatever u call it is really exist in these country! no maids nor cheap labor who gets pay $50/months, people is really appreciated here as a human being not a slave of some big fat mama who tells them what to do without any “thank you” or appreciation. My cousin or students back home don’t even know how to do the dishes… why should their bother If they could pay someone what they call it “maid” and pay them for cheap! don’t blame them, coz I will do the same thing if it makes life easier… blame the system!!!
Why should a person be a maid and get cheap salary (in My country)? coz they couldn’t find a better job, why cant they? Coz they have no qualification and why? coz they didn’t go to school  and why didn’t they go to school? Coz they are poor and have no money to pay the school, but why? Coz education isn’t free in my country? why isn’t free? Coz the system hahah! It goes around and comes around like a rat race!!!.. but then why? And why? If I’m too tired to explain I would say “ah just the way it is” J have you seen “chat-online” those girls from poor countries are looking for any random man in western USA / England/ Canada/ Australia etc just to get the green card then they can stay. I don’t blame them but have u seen any girls form poor country who is looking for any man from any third world countries so they can stay? NONE! Hahah what am I talking here!!!  J those people knows what’s going on but pretend they don’t know coz they are to ego to admit! I don’t! in fact they blame me not to be a loyal citizen! Oh I do love my country a lot but I hate the system! My mom wouldn’t sell her wedding ring just to get us to school if the school is free! My parents wouldn’t worry about their health if it’s free! My dad wouldn’t work this hard if he knows his kids are taken care well (education and health) and if he gets retired money from government coz he is not govern officer (only those who works for govern will get long life retired cash).
Anyway! Me, one of those lucky girls who has the chance to go to school until master (which I had to work hard for that) still get shitty salary from workplace compare to experts (who some of them don’t even go to school or have qualification)  just because I’m local but you know what!! I thanked the system coz it makes me who I am now! I’m lucky enough to meet a man of my life NOT from online who apparently from USA and have promising quality of life coz at least my kids (perhaps when we have ) wont struggle as much as I did just to get rid from the system, at least I don’t have to sell my wedding ring just to send them to school!!! J
I’m just trying to be honest, frankly speaking! Im lucky to be the way I am coz it makes who I amJ

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